2 Rams, 3 Goats and 20 Loaves of Bread

When I was a kid in Sunday school we learned the old testament tale of Abraham and Isaac. Abraham was very old and had no children, so when God blessed him with a son, Isaac, it was a true miracle. Abraham loved Isaac with his whole heart. Then one day, God decided to test Abraham. Genesis 22 is the account of Abraham’s test. God came to Abraham and told him to take Isaac to another land, and sacrifice him on a mountain. Abraham did as he was told and took Isaac to the mountain that God pointed out to him. Abraham built the altar and placed Isaac upon it, But when Abraham reached for his knife the angel of the lord called to him and said,

“Do not lay a hand on the boy. Do not do anything to him. Now I know that you fear God, because you have not withheld from me your son, your only son.”

When Abraham looked up he saw a ram stuck in a thicket. He sacrificed the ram in the place of his son and rejoiced in the goodness of God. The angel of the Lord came to Abraham a second time and said,

“I swear by myself, declares the Lord, that because you have done this and have not withheld your son, your only son, I will surely bless you and make your descendants as numerous as the stars in the sky and as the sand on the seashore. Your descendants will take possession of the cities of their enemies, and through your offspring all nations on earth will be blessed,because you have obeyed me.”

Abraham went from that place, and as the angel promised he lived a prosperous life with his son.

So what the heck does this bible story have to do with my Peace Corps service in Senegal? Tabaski, baby! Tabaski or Eid al-Adha, is a massive celebration of Abraham (Ibrahim’s) willingness to sacrifice his son, and God’s (Allah’s) goodness in providing Abraham with a ram in Isaac’s (Ishmael’s) place. As you can tell, the name’s are slightly different, but the story is the same. Abraham was faithful and willing to sacrifice what meant most to him.

So what exactly is Tabaski? Basically, Tabaski is a big party. Typically it is a three-day event. Because the holiday is based on the Islamic calendar, it is not completely certain what day the festivities will begin. If you read my post on Ramadan and Korite it is the same concept. Everything depends on the lunar cycle. So in order to describe Tabaski as best as I can, I’ll start a month before the actual event.

There is a phrase that I heard a lot leading up to Tabaski, “Dangay prepare Tabaski?” or “Are you preparing for Tabaski?”. Preparing for Tabaski is a big task, especially for women. Everyone is expected to get new clothes made for Tabaski. I’m not talking just a simple new outfit. Tabaski outfits are fancy, and generally expensive. Fabric has to be purchased far in advance, and you have to give your tailor plenty of time because this is the busiest time of the year for them. It is very common for a woman to spend 50 to 100 dollars on a new outfit. That is very common in America, but basically unheard of here. On top of that, all women and girls get their hair done, many with fake hair which can get expensive. They also like to have new shoes, and all new jewelry. All of that adds up very quickly, especially when a family has a lot of girls!

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I amazed my family by helping them braid this girls hair! My Aunt would tie and braid in the fake hair and stop at about three inches, then I would take over. The whole process took two days! I only helped for a few hours, but I can’t imagine sitting that long to get my hair done.

Men also get new outfits made, usually with the best and most expensive fabrics, but the biggest thing men do for Tabaski is to buy a ram for the “sacrifice feast”. Each male head of the household is expected to buy a ram for Tabaski. In many cases, especially in rural areas, men do not have the money for a ram, so goats are a cheaper alternative. Men that are more wealthy very often buy multiple rams. In the weeks leading to Tabaski, I definitely noticed a rise in the amount of rams that I saw on a daily basis. One day I saw a horse cart traveling from village that was loaded down with at least 7 rams. Those carts aren’t that big either! Rams and goats are put on the tops of cars and busses in order to get them where they need to go. It is definitely an interesting sight to see!

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Sheep waiting to be loaded on the top of these busses. The car owners tie the animals legs, or put them in rice sacks with their heads sticking out.

About 5 days before Tabaski I went to my regional capital to do some work. I walked through the market on the way to our regional house to pick up some supplied for lunch, and I was absolutely amazed..and a little afraid. The market was packed! Taxis were bumper to bumper and no one was moving. Daring motorcyclist were weaving in and out of cars and people. Supply trucks were everywhere unloading things like potatoes, onions, mayonnaise, garlic, and various seasonings. I got the things that I needed and quickly retreated to one of the less busy side streets. I can only imagine what that same market looked like the day before Tabaski began!

The few days before all of the events my host father went to the larger village about 3 miles from ours and purchased potatoes, oil, vinegar, mustard, and the holy trinity of flavoring in Senegal… garlic, onions, and Adja powder. Here is an interesting tidbit of information, the price of staple goods needed for Tabaski sprockets around Tabaski. Supply and Demand y’all! Pair that with the fact that vegetables are already expensive during rainy season, and you’ve got a very expensive bowl of onion sauce.

Tabaski: Day One

Like many other events in Senegal, the first day of Tabaski was very anti-climactic. In the morning the men go to pray all together. Men in my village went to the larger mosque in the next village. As soon as they returned from their prayers, they began preparing their animals. My uncle dug a hole in the middle of our compound and I realized that they were going to kill the animals right there where we normally eat lunch. My father pulled out his new knife which he told me he spent a whole 2,000 CFA on. This is about $4.00, which may not seem like a lot for a big knife used to kill sheep, but it is a lot to pay for a knife in Senegal! Each male head of the household brought their animals over and tied them to the fence. My brother had the biggest ram, and my uncle had a second slightly smaller ram. My father and two other uncles each had a goat. I am not exactly sure if there is a particular order that the animals should be killed in, but they killed my brothers big ram first, then the goats in descending size, then the smaller ram. I didn’t watch when they were slitting the animals throats, but I definitely feel like I got enough of the experience.

 

Once the animals were dead and most of their blood drained, each man took his animal to a different place to skin and clean it. I stayed away from those areas too..weak stomach. Not too long after that, my brother, father and uncle gathered with their meat and began dividing it. The meat is typically split into three parts. One third for the family, one-third to be shared with friends, family, and community members, and one third for the poor. Since I live in a small village, it was more of a half and half for our family and for other families in the village. They divided the meat into neat little portions of different cuts of meat, including stomach and intestines. Then they sent one of the older boys in the family to distribute the piles to other families. Throughout the morning, may boys were coming and going offering their meat to us. So in the end, you basically get your whole animal back through other people.

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My cousin with his platter of meat to take to other families in the village.

The liver is kept separate and is cooked first. My mother cooked our ram’s liver in my room on my small gas cooking unit, and then my father offered me a portion of the meat. Since I’m not an expert in the cooking of ram, I respectfully declined. But maybe next year!

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Probably one of the funniest and most surprising moments of my service was when my three-year old cousin Aliou came around the corner with a full ram liver in his hands. That thing is almost as big as his head! Almost…he has a big head 😉

Once all the meat was distributed it was around 12:30. The women of the families began to prepare the meat. Instead of having lunch at the normal 2:00 time, people just eat meat around 1pm. While the meat for lunch is cooking, women begin to cut the onions and potatoes for the 4:00 meal. On the first day of Tabaski I cut eight pounds of onions and three pounds of potatoes. All of this with no cutting board. Lets just say I bet I can cut an onion faster than with just my two hands and knife than any of you reading this could in an American kitchen.

Senegalese Tip: When you start cutting onions, take a generous piece of onion and place it in your head scarf, or just on your head and you won’t cry or get a runny nose. lol. If only that actually worked, but I still find myself doing it every time!

After a couple of hours of chopping and cutting I took some time to go get the bread that I had ordered from my brother, the local baker, earlier in the morning. My father told me to buy 20 loaves. Each loaf of bread is 100CFA. So naturally I payed 2000CFA for 20 loaves of bread. remember that knife my dad bought for 2000CFA? Yep. $4 bought 20 loaves of bread. That is just so crazy to me! Once the bread was picked up, my jobs for the day were done, so I took some time to relax. All the men and boys were getting hair cuts and the little girls were getting dressed in their pretty new cloths. My mom brought my personal bowl of ‘lunch’ to my room around 4:30.

 

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My cousin shaving his younger brothers head. All the boys got hair cuts, and even some of the older men.

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Baby Omar getting his hair done! This has to be one of my favorite pictures thus far!

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I bought my niece, Fatu and I matching hair scrunchies! She loved it, and so did I! PS they were less than 25 cents each..so if you want one..I can hook you up. 😉

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My younger brother and baby Omar hanging out on the morning of Tabaski.

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My sister-in-law, Nyakkanah, bringing lunch out for the men and the children.

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My lunch bowl had so much meat! The sauce was onion sauce with chucks of potatoes. This is served with bread so you can make a nice meat and sauce sandwich.

Similar to Korite (end of Ramadan feast) all of the women and older girls ate in their own area. They put on their fancy clothes and all bring their bowls to eat together under a neem tree. I went along to give everyone candy when they were done eating. The rest of the day was fairly normal. I helped my sister pound millet for dinner, and played with the kids until around 7 when I normally shower and change into comfortable clothes.

Tabaski: Day Two

Day two of Tabaski is exactly the same as day one, except the morning activity of sacrificing the animals is already done. I cut more onions and potatoes, bought more bread, and ate more onion sauce with chunks of meat.

Night time is different on day two though. This is one night when kids get to go around to differnt houses in the village and ask for small coins, candy, or anything else someone wants to give them. This is not unlike our Tick or Treat in America on Halloween. I gave kids little candies, and the word quickly spread that Khodia was giving out candy! But it was very fun!

Tabaski: Day Three

Day three is exactly like day two except along with the kids asking for things, there is also a little dance with the women around 6pm. Everyone in a circle with a few women beating on plastic buckets and metal bowls with their rubber shoes. It is a blast, but can also easily give you a headache!

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Fatu getting down at the dance! In these dances, the dancer controls the music. If she speeds up, the drummers speed up, and if she ‘backs it up’ they know she is almost finished and end it with a few hard beats, and a lot of laughs from the crowd!

By day three most of the meat has been eaten, but some may be left over depending on how much you had in the first place. My family had some left and continued to eat a little meat with every meal until it was gone. This was a total of five days where every meal contained meat!

Tabaski: Wrap up

If you have made it this far, I congratulate you! I am obviously not a person of few words. But to sum it all up, my first Tabaski was an awesome experience. I learned a lot about Islam, and had a lot of fun with my family. I tried to ask a lot of questions, and I found that in some cases the real meaning of Tabaski has been lost, especially for women and children. Sound familiar? When I asked some people why we have Tabaski it took them a while to get to the story of Abraham and Isaac. While Senegal is still part of the developing world, its people have certainly succumbed to materialism in some ways. The holiday was a lot about having new clothes, shoes, jewlery and hair. But this fact also made me think a lot about consumerism in America. Here, the only time people do get nice, new clothes is for big events like this. In America, if I wanted to, I could go out and buy a new outfit just because I am bored on a Saturday afternoon. So if you only got a new outfit once a year, wouldn’t you be excited about it too?!

This experience has been a world of new opportunityies and knowledge for me. It is hard, and very different from what I am used to, but I am thankful that I get to do it, and share my experiences with anyone who cares to listen! Bon Tabaski y’all!

 

23 and hungry

IMG_0308Today is my 23rd Birthday. Today also marks 9 months in Senegal. To put that in perspective.. I could have had a baby in that time. Guys…a baby. Don’t worry, I don’t yet have a child, and don’t plan to any time soon. But in all seriousness, I have grown more in the last 9 months, been pushed to my limits, and learned more about myself than I could possibly describe. I can only hope that the change is for the better and that it will stick around long after I leave Senegal.

I confess, this blog post will be a combination of a few very different topics, but I assure you, they link together in one way or another. So to begin I would like to talk a little about what life has been like for the last 22 days in Senegal. As you may know from previous knowledge, or from my all too frequent Facebook, twitter, and Instagram posts, this month is Ramadan for the Islamic faith community. Ramadan is a month long period of fasting in which Muslims abstain from eating, drinking, smoking, sinful actions and sexual relations. Ramadan takes place during the 9th month of the lunar calendar every year. It is believed that this was the time when the Quran was first revealed to the profit, Muhammad.

This year, Ramadan began on the morning of June 7th. This being my first Ramadan, I wasn’t exactly sure what to expect. Other volunteers had told me that you usually wake up around 4am to eat the morning meal. So on the night of the 6th, I reluctantly set an alarm for 4am and went to bed. That morning, and every morning after that, at around 4:30 my host father comes around the compound as a wake up call telling everyone to get up and come have the morning meal. Each morning we have another portion of what we had for dinner the night before. After eating ‘breakfast’ and drinking as much water as physically possible I go straight back to bed along with the women and any of the children that happened to wake up. The men in the family stay up for the morning call to prayer around 5:30 and the day continues as usual.

As you can imagine, not eating or drinking anything all day is very hard, not only physically, but mentally. I decided that in order to prevent the worst case scenario of me passing out in front of my whole family, I would continue to drink water in my room when my fasting family members are not around. The first day was very hard. I spent most of the day hanging out with my family, and napping/watching grey’s anatomy in my room. I fasted for a full week with my family. It was hard, but got easier as the days went by. At the start of the second week I decided to start eating a little something throughout the day because I could feel the effects not eating was having on my body. However, I eat much less than I normally would in a day.

Now for the fun part…break fast! That first day of break fast was so fun for me. I had no idea what was going to happen or how it would work. I was told to buy bread, so I got some from my aunt. At around 7:35pm my second mother told me to bring my drinking cup. I was a little confused because it seemed to me that the sun was not down yet, but in fact it was! I brought my cup and she filled it with cold water. Ice is something that we don’t have very often in my village. But during Ramadan, all around Senegal, families buy ice for break fast. I mean, you didn’t drink anything all day..in the words of Tom Haverford and Donna Meagle, “Treat. Yo. Self.”. Another staple of break fast is bread and coffee. Sometimes served with butter or onion sauce, this is the first thing that people eat after a full day of fasting. In wealthier places, dates are very common to have for break fast. Although I did not really follow the rules, I still felt very accomplished during that first break fast. I don’t think I will ever forget that excitement that I felt, and that emanated from the people around me.

I had heard from other volunteers that the village would completely change during Ramadan. People will be grumpy and not a lot of work would get done. That is partly true. There are definitely some grumpy people and I see people sleeping out under a tree a lot. I sleep out under a tree a lot! But the idea that they don’t work as much is a little off. The time of work is different. For instance, I got a new roof on my hut the other day and the men in my family started working before the sun came up. At around 10am when it started getting hot, they paused their work and picked it back up at around 5pm when it started cooling off. In those 7 hours though they didn’t just lay around. They did other work and managed to get things done despite their hunger, thirst, and copious amounts of sweat. Long story short, I am amazed by the strength and resiliency that I have seen over the last month.

Here is one of those topic changes I mentioned in the beginning. Religious differences have fueled disputes since the beginning of time. For some reason, religion makes people a little crazy. I think this is partly because a majority of religious people don’t take the time to learn about other religions, and a lot of people who aren’t religious don’t take the time to try to understand any of it. Now I’m not trying to generalize here, there are huge amounts of people who spend a lot of time doing research in order to understand different religions and make decisions based on their findings.

Personally, I was raised a Christian. I was never exposed to anything else until I was old enough to find it on my own, which is completely reasonable, and I am thankful that I was raised in a Christian home. I also regret to say that when I did have the ability to do my own searching, I didn’t do much. It wasn’t until getting my call to go to a country that is 92% Muslim that I really learned more about this faith that nearly 1.6 billion people follow. The number one thing that I have taken away from my findings.. Generalizations are way too dangerous. We all know people who swear by the fact that Muslim and terrorist go hand in hand. If we don’t personally know them, we know of them *cough *cough … he’s a frontrunner for POTUS 2016. The truth is, saying all Muslims are dangerous is like saying that all blondes are unintelligent. As the other frontrunner for POTUS 2016.. Hillary Clinton proves that generalization wrong in fractions of a second.

When I told people that I would be coming to Senegal, most people were concerned by the fact that Senegal is 92% Muslim. This is a reasonable concern considering recent events in Middle East and Africa. But, I am here to say that just because a country is a vast majority Muslim, does not mean it is dangerous. During my time in Senegal I have learned a lot about peace. Whenever greeting a person in Senegal in local language, the word peace is used multiple times. ‘Peace only’ is a phrase used for just about everything. How is your family? – Peace Only. How is your work? – Peace Only. Are you in Peace? Peace only. Does that sound like the kind of culture that fosters hate and terror? Let me tell you, it is not. This peaceful way of life is not only just in Senegal. Islam is rooted in the basis of peace, love, and mutual understanding and acceptance. A few bad people cannot allow us to change our entire perspective on a major people group. It is not just and it is not safe.

Generalizations are dangerous because they dare to cross a line that cannot be crossed over again. Insert “do not dare cross this line” scene from Dudley Do-right, here. Once an idea is put in motion, there is no stopping it. The actions of one bad person can ruin the lives of many. If that person doing those bad things was a Christian, or a Jew, or loved a person of the same sex, does that mean that all Christians and Jew’s and LGBTQ individuals are evil? No it does not.

In the wake of the tragic shooting in Orlando, I feel that this is a very important time for us to come together. Not just us as Americans, but us, as a human race. Of course world peace is not going to happen over night, but you can change your own outlook and your own actions, and encourage others to do the same. The LGBTQ community is one full of life, love, and beauty. It is time that people give up the hate and start loving these people for who they are…people. This concept goes for every single label that you could possibly put on a person. Underneath all of that judgment is a person.

My main point through all of this is that hatred and bigotry are not qualities that we, as humans, should strive for or even allow in our hearts and minds. We are all humans. We all live on this planet, breathing the same air and walking on the same ground. If you are a Christian, than you believe that the same God created us all. A God who loves, and a God who heals. Yes, we live in a fallen world. But that does not mean that we, as humans, need to lower our standards to meet those expectations. We can be more and we must be more.

“No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.” – Nelson Mandela

So yes, I am hungry, physically, and metaphorically. Ramadan has shown me what it really feels like to be hungry, and has taught me patience. But aside from that, I am hungry for a change in this world. I want to live in a place where no one is looked down upon because of his or her race, religion, political beliefs, or sexual orientation. To me, love is more important than all of these things. War is necessary at times. There are evil people, and good people who do evil things. But I encourage you, and hope that you would look into your hearts and into your minds. Think about your actions, your behaviors and your speech. Do not foster an unsafe or uncomfortable environment for any other human being. Not all Muslims are terrorists. Not all blonds are unintelligent. And as I have learned all too well over the last month, not all gung-ho Peace Corps volunteers can successfully complete Ramadan. M&M’s are just too good. (Thanks for the 3.5 pound bag by the way Aunt Angie, it’s a dream!)

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This pic of Omar. Because look at that face!